Expectations of Behaviour Guidelines
The Australian Rugby Union has a guideline to assist clubs when dealing with expectations of behaviour from players, parents, teachers and coaches. Click here (87kb) to download a pdf copy or read them below.
The expectations of behaviour guidelines are a simple outline for parents, teachers, coaches and players to ensure everyone is given the opportunity to maximise their enjoyment of the game. Rugby has always been a game that prides itself on fair play and enjoyment for all, so please adhere to these guidelines to ensure this continues.
These guidelines have been developed to:
Maintain the elements of enjoyment and satisfaction in Rugby
Make adults aware that young people play to satisfy themselves and not necessarily to satisfy adults or members of their own peer group
Improve the physical fitness of youth by encouraging participation in rugby by making it attractive, safe and enjoyable for all young people
Constantly remind administrators, coaches, teachers, referees and parents that Rugby must be administered, taught and provided, for the good of those young people who wish to play the game. It is their game.
Players
Play for enjoyment, not just to please your parents, teachers or coach
Play by the laws of the game
Never argue with the referee's decision. Let your captain or coach ask any necessary questions
Control your temper - no 'mouthing off'
Work equally hard for yourself and for your team. Your team's performance will benefit and so will your own
Be a good sport. Applaud all the good play, whether it is done by your team or your opponent
Shake hands with all of the opposing team at the conclusion of the match, and clap them off in the spirit of good sportsmanship
Treat all players as you yourself would like to be treated. Do not interfere with, bully or take advantage of any player
Treat everyone equally regardless of sex, disability, ethnic origin or religion.
Remember that the goals of the game are to have fun, improve your skills and feel good
Co-operate with your coach, teacher, team mates, referee and opponents, for without them you do not have a game.
Parents / Spectators
Remember that young people are involved in rugby for their enjoyment, not yours
Encourage children to play by the Laws
Teach young people that honest effort is as important as victory so that the result of each game is accepted without undue disappointment
Remember that young people learn best by example. Applaud good play from both teams
Do not publicly question the referee's judgement and never his/her honesty
Support all efforts to remove verbal and physical abuse from the game
Recognise the importance of volunteer coaches and referees. They give their time and resources to provide a game for young participants
Coaches / Teachers
Be reasonable in your demands on the young player's time, energy and enthusiasm
Teach your players the Laws of the game and for them to play within the Laws
Ensure that all players get a game. The 'just average' players needs and deserve equal time
Remember that young people play for fun and enjoyment and that winning is only a part of it. Never ridicule or admonish the players for making errors or losing a game
Be professional and accept responsibilities for your actions
Display high standards in language, behaviour, manner, dress, punctuality and preparation.
Develop team respect for the ability of opponents, as well as the judgement of referees and opposing coaches
Discourage excessive talk on the field
Insist on a disciplined approach by the players
